ImmigrationFraudVictims

I still can’t believe it happened…

I still don’t understand how it could happen. I still think about it every morning, very early in the morning. I still suffer from stress, anxiety and pain…

I just wanted to help her. In the beginning we talked about her being a domestic violence victim. She told me that her ex-husband was beating on her since their honeymoon. So he was beating on her for 17 years and also cheating on her with other women.

I have been told recently that after 17 years of being a domestic violence victim she would be a very sick woman, incapable of loving any man. She would abuse other men to achieve her goals.

So that is what she did to me. She never loved me. She used my money, my house, my cars, my love, my caring.

She made me think that she really wanted to be my wife, but right after we got married the problems started.

She started calling the police, she started making accusations of verbal violence. She got herself into a domestic violence shelter.

She made false accusations of Domestic Violence. She manipulated the Violence Against Women Act (VAWA). Under this law she gets all the help she needs: Housing, Psychological, Medical, Employment and Immigration papers to stay in this country… and I get served by the Sheriff and a date at the court house.

THE WALKING ZOMBIE SYNDROME (PTSD)
APPLIED TO VICTIMS OF FALSE ACCUSATIONS AND MARRIAGE FRAUD
by Bill Ronan , State Licensed Psychotherapist (LICSW)

http://www.immigrationfraudvictims.com/PTSD.pdf

If you have the ability contact the first guy who was alleged to have abused your wife for 17 years.

You may find that so called abuse never occurred.

My situation is not dissimilar to yours. Without the support of the first guy I would not have made it through this. It helps you greatly in court if you can show a pattern.

Reality is, the the first guy who was alleged to have abused her for 17 years confessed in court...

He also mentioned to me that he was provoked and lost his temper.

So my conclusion is that she is very sick. Her deal is to abuse men, to provoke them and thus to achieve her "goals".....

I have a question on the VAWA, if the person gets their 2 year card through the act, is their spouse still financially responsible? I have rather been through the same situation, and our divorce process is pending our signatures. I have sent letters into the USCIS office that issued her I-129f, requesting it be terminated, to stop her 2yr card with me responsible. We have not yet had any interview, and with the no contact order, there won't be one. I called the service line, and that was the information the person gave me to stop the card. I had also sent letters to the processing office handling her work & travel permit papers, but since my name isn't on the noa's, I was told they will ignore them. I wasn't even notified that she was granted her other papers, until I saw a picture of her showing them off.

I'm just going to get through this mess, and probably stay single the rest of my life.

Thanks for the information,

Parky

Parky,
What do you know about the no contact order?

I still have a lot of stuff that used to belong to my ex and her children. On occasion I would write her an email telling her I found something of hers in my house and that she can come pick it up.

It funny... I know she can't do it.

There is also some sort of a government protection program she is under. Do you know anything about that?

I filed for divorce as soon as I realized something was wrong. The judge granted me the divorce right after her petition for Temporary Protective Order was dismissed. Then I got another order from the judge that prevents her from getting her stuff from my house (that she forfeited her rights to her own belongings). I did that because I did not want her to have any reason to ever come by my house.

Any additional information is useful, Thanks.

I was charged with domestic assault/battery & false imprisonment. The "nco" goes with that, and is court ordered. I can only contact her through her lawyers, and no other way at all. I believe what you are referring to is a "Joint temporary restraining order" for "property". Basically it means that neither party can sell, destroy, etc. the other persons' property. If one does, they can be held in contempt &/or criminal charges can be set against said person. All property has to be exchanged once the decree is finalized, then the restraining order will be lifted once everything is done. I'm in Idaho, so things might be different where you are. That program may be part of the VAWA.

Hi Parky,

Technically, you are still financially liable under terms of the Affidavit of Support for up to 10 years. In most cases that I am aware of, the divorce judge says that it isn't a consideration in the divorce since that is a federal document, but I am skeptical in the amount of influence it may have in financial decrees. Some judges use it, some consider it, but I really don't think any of them truly dismiss it, regardless of what they may say.

As far as the federal government actually coming after you for reimbursement for any support she may receive, it is my understanding that this is a rarity. But, it could happen.

There isn't an official form to withdraw your Affidavit of Support, that I am aware of. I sent a notarized letter via certified mail to the USCIS withdrawing my Affidavit of Support. I informed the USCIS that since my immigrant wife was making false claims of abuse against me in order to file the I-360 self petition, and since the USCIS would not permit me to defend myself against these false claims, and since the USCIS would make their decision on her permanent green card without my input, I refused to be held financially liable for any decision they made. Whether or not this would stand up if push comes to shove.....who knows? They signed for my letter, and I never received a response. I also presented this letter in court during my divorce when her lawyer tried the 10 years of support request.